As every candidate knows, a Sacrament is an outward (visible) sign instituted by Christ to give grace.  Therefore it is important we focus on both the outside appearance and the internal conversion during all of our Sacramental ceremonies.  At the Sacrament of Baptism we wear special gowns, the Sacrament of First Communion we wear white dresses or suits, and at our Marriage we wear formal gowns or tuxedos. It is with this same consideration that we consider our outward appearance during the Sacrament of Confirmation. 

 

While the church greatly respects the uniqueness and individuality in each of its members, it holds that modesty is a fruit of the Holy Spirit and that “Teaching modesty to children and adolescents means awakening in them respect for the human person.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church 25234) 

 

It is in this spirit of fostering respect for each other and for the sanctity of the Sacrament of Confirmation that we set forth a code of dress consistent with our culture’s view of modesty.  Semi-formal, modest attire is appropriate to the solemn beauty of this occasion. 

 

The liturgical color for Confirmation is red, to signify the Holy Spirit who confirmed the apostles on Pentecost and gave them courage to practice their faith. Catholics believe that the same Holy Spirit confirms us during the Sacrament of Confirmation and gives us the same gifts. Therefore it is suggested your child wear some red on this special day, but not necessary.  For young men, it is traditional to wear a red tie.  For young ladies, a red dress, a red sweater or other accent is suggested.   White is also acceptable.